What Do We Work For? | Lessons from the Pianist

What do we work for? If you’re a student, perhaps you work to gain knowledge or build a career. If you’re in the workforce, maybe you work to earn money, support your family, or bring a dream project to life.

But how do we measure success? Is it the ability to provide for loved ones, saving enough for retirement, or achieving a milestone? And what happens when we face challenges—when our efforts go unnoticed or when support is hard to find? How do we keep going?

As you reflect on what work means to you, here’s a story from Paulo Coelho that might remind us of what truly matters, especially in moments of doubt.

The Pianist at the Shopping Center

One day, Brazilian novelist Paulo Coelho was strolling through a shopping center with a violinist friend. His friend stopped him to draw his attention to the music. What music? Coelho wondered, all he could hear was the noise of shoppers, blaring televisions, and background music from stores. But as they stood and paid attention, they could hear the clear notes of what sounded like someone playing a piano. Intrigued, they followed the sound.

The trail led them to a bustling food court. Amid the chaos of people eating, chatting, and going about their day, sat a pianist playing a Chopin sonata, followed by Mozart. A small sign near the stage revealed that he was a renowned musician from Georgia, a former Soviet republic.

Coelho assumed the man must have struggled to find work. Perhaps he had knocked on many doors but was turned away. In desperation, he must have resigned himself to playing in such a setting. But as he watched, something deeper caught his attention.

The pianist’s eyes were closed. He didn’t seem to be in this world at all, as if he were admiring the beauty of the magical world where all music is composed. His hands moved with effortless grace. Each note carried years of practice, dedication, and love.

A Conversation Beyond the Noise

Coelho wondered, “Does he realize that no is listening to him? In fact, no one even comes here to listen to music? These people are here to shop, enjoy a snack or meet a friend. This isn’t a concert hall or even a diner where music sets the atmosphere.” Yet the pianist seemed oblivious to his surroundings. As if he was chatting with Mozart’s angels. He wasn’t playing for applause or recognition.

He played not for the crowd but because it was his destiny, his joy—his very reason for being.

The pianist didn’t even notice Coelho and his friend standing there, captivated by his music. Coelho’s friend, a gifted violinist, had tears in her eyes. At that moment, Coelho realized the truth: it wasn’t that no one was listening—God was listening.

“God is in this man’s soul and hands,” Coelho thought, “because he is giving the best of himself.” The pianist played with the same sincerity and devotion as if he were performing at an opera in Paris. He played not for the crowd but because it was his destiny, his joy—his very reason for being.

A Lesson in Purpose

The pianist teaches us a profound lesson: it doesn’t matter who supports you or who notices your efforts. It doesn’t even matter if you are criticized or ignored. What matters is staying true to your calling. Even when no one seems to care. Your work is a reflection of your soul and your conversation with the divine. And that, in itself, is reason enough to keep going.

When you work, you are a flute through whose heart the whispering of the hours turns to music.

Kahlil Gibran

Reflection question 

Do you recall a time when you were able to offer your best to your work—without concern for the reward or criticism? How did it shape your perspective on success?

References
  1. Coelho, Paulo. Like the Flowing River: Thoughts and Reflections.
  2. Gibran, Kahlil. The Prophet.


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4 responses to “What Do We Work For? | Lessons from the Pianist”

  1. Exploring the topic of purpose, one word immediately comes to mind – IKIGAI.

    The Allure of Ikigai: A Personal Journey

    For a long time, I have been fascinated by the Japanese concept of Ikigai—finding purpose and fulfillment at the intersection of:

    – What you’re good at

    – What you love doing

    – What the world needs

    – What you can be paid for

    Initially, failing to find this magical combination in a single pursuit often left me feeling disappointed. However, over time, I shifted my perspective. I realized that when the effort to earn and provide value to the world leaves us feeling disconnected from what we love or excel at, hobbies can bridge the gap. They offer a space for joy, self-expression, and personal fulfillment, ensuring that the essence of who we are is not lost amidst our responsibilities. 

    Beyond a Single Pursuit

    This insight led me to seek fulfillment across different aspects of life rather than expecting one “work” to satisfy everything. By diversifying where I sought these elements, I could meet my needs holistically while staying open to new possibilities. For instance, hobbies nourished my passions, work provided financial sustenance, and volunteering opportunities allowed me to serve a greater mission.

    Embracing Growth and Exploration

    As I continued on this journey, I realized the importance of exploring what the world needs and how we can grow to serve those needs—whether by expanding our skill set, shifting our perspectives to connect with the needs of others, or putting in deliberate effort. While this journey often takes us out of our comfort zones, sometimes making us feel as though we are battling a huge challenge, it’s worth remembering that everything we excel at today was once unfamiliar.

    Finding Purpose in Everyday Life

    Sometimes, what the world or our family needs may not align with what we love doing. Yet, meeting those needs might help us uncover new depths of love in our hearts and purpose within ourselves.

    Similarly, exploring how we can earn money is not just about financial gain or sustenance—it can be a way to understand what the world values and can lead us to develop new skills or discover passions we never imagined. Moreover, the financial resources we accumulate can also serve as an enabler for transforming our passions or our calling into fulfilling careers.

    The Imperfect Path to Ikigai

    Ultimately, living a life of Ikigai is not about finding a perfect formula but embracing flexibility, curiosity, and balance in how we meet these essential aspects of life.

    A Lasting Reflection

    The story of the pianist reminds me that, in the end, purpose isn’t defined by external applause or approval. Instead, it lies in the sincerity of our efforts, the love we bring to what we do, and the connection we feel with our calling. 

    Drawing from my life’s experiences, true purpose is not something we discover—it’s something we cultivate in our daily lives, and its reward is a life of profound meaning and fulfillment.

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    1. Dear Uthra – The “imperfect path to ikigai” is a good way to put it – “embracing flexibility, curiosity, and balance” can help us stay steadfast on this journey.

      That is another important lesson that continues from the story – that there is no ‘perfect career’ or ‘perfect situation’ we should be waiting for. Every day is an opportunity to offer the best of ourselves. Every situation brings us something that tests our mettle and helps us sharpen our skills.

      Your reflections reminded me of the part in the story where the pianist was performing. For a renowned musician, playing to an uninterested crowd was far from the “ideal” scenario. Yet, he chose to move forward—not merely to scrape through, but to pour his heart into the performance.

      Throughout our education and formal careers, we have been conditioned to dream of and work towards success / perfection. But we rarely talk about how to deal with ‘failure / imperfection’. How do we respond when the results don’t align with our expectations?

      There is little preparation for that. it makes you wonder what kind of education and social conditioning we are offering to children.

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  2. The above story imparts a really beautiful message. There was a time in life when actually I have worked for monetary benefits but over a period of time my work has taught me a lot. Being in the field of Child counselling, I have met many parents and students, tried my best to help them. There were times when I have laughed with them and at times cried after they have left. There is a task which is assigned to every soul. Do it well..you will find God right here.

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    1. Welcome to the conversation! ☺🙏🏼

      What a beautiful reflection—thank you for sharing. 🙂

      Your message, “There is a task assigned to every soul. Do it well,” is such a powerful reminder.

      I have a question for you: Many of us are striving to find deeper meaning in our work but often feel the pull of conflicting pressures, like the need to earn a living. How do you navigate this balance? Do you still feel the need to juggle earning with your sense of purpose, or have you reached a place where your purpose drives you completely?

      {Please feel free to respond here if you’re comfortable, or we can explore this further in a group session in the future. :)}

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