Raksha | Draupadi’s grouse with Lord Krishna

In the rich wisdom traditions of India, the bond between Krishna and Draupadi is an outstanding example of divine friendship and trust*. One day Draupadi posed a question to Lord Krishna about something that was deeply troubling her. She asked “You are my Sakha. And I have complete trust in you. You protected my honor in the assembly of the Kauravas when no one else came to my rescue. But I have one complaint”.

“What is it?”, asked Lord Krishna affectionately.

“Why did you take so long to come to my aid?” 

Krishna, with a gentle smile responded, “I came as soon as you called me.”

Draupadi, still puzzled, pressed on, “Yes, I am grateful that you came to my aid, but why did you delay your intervention? Why did you let me suffer such humiliation?”

Krishna patiently repeated, “I came as soon as you called me.”

Draupadi was perplexed. 

Krishna explained — “When Dushasana dragged you into the court, your first instinct was to place hope in your relatives. You thought, ‘Surely, the elders will not remain silent at this shameful act.’ But when you reached the assembly, they averted their eyes, their heads bowed in shame. Then, you turned to your husbands, thinking, ‘They are mighty warriors; they will not tolerate this indignity.’ Yet, they, too, were powerless, having lost everything, including you, in a game of dice.”

Krishna continued, “In your desperation, you tried to save yourself, clutching your sari with your teeth. But when Dushasana forcibly pulled it away, you finally abandoned hope in everything and everyone else. It was at that moment, with no other refuge, that you called upon me with true earnestness.”

“Until then, you had not truly called on me — you were looking for support elsewhere. When you surrendered completely and called upon me from the depths of your heart, I came.”

Source: Power of Prayer, Raghbir Singh ji Bir. Discourse by Giani Pinderpal Singh ji.


*For those unfamiliar with Indian mythology, this story is part of the Mahabharata, one of the two major Sanskrit epics of ancient India. Draupadi, the wife of the five Pandava brothers, was subjected to a humiliating ordeal when her husbands lost her in a game of dice to their cousins, the Kauravas. As part of the wager, the Kauravas dragged Draupadi into their assembly, intent on dishonoring her publicly. This scene, where she is humiliated and dragged by her hair, is one of the most complex moments in the epic, symbolizing the depths of human cruelty and the struggle for justice.


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4 responses to “Raksha | Draupadi’s grouse with Lord Krishna”

  1. Vijayalakshmi N Avatar
    Vijayalakshmi N

    Wonderful. When we surrender to the Almighty, He will protect us at all costs. Only requirement, on our side is Faith and patience. With these two tools with us, Lord will always be with us.

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    1. The Sabad Project Avatar
      The Sabad Project

      Beautifully put. This feels like one of those lessons we ‘heard’ in childhood but only started to truly understand much later in life. It’s interesting how the simplest lessons are often the hardest to live by. 🙂

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  2. A classic segment from the Mahabharata that is used to illustrate the power of surrender.

    In life, it can be challenging to determine what is within our control and what isn’t. I can’t criticize Draupadi for surrendering to God a little late. Without exhausting all avenues within our ability, power, or influence, how else can we be sure we’ve done our part?

    In my experience, what has worked for me is choosing to play my part well. Most of us fail to do that. We will be surprised to note the incredible results we can achieve simply by doing our part. After doing everything in our power and still finding it insufficient – that’s when true surrender happens.

    In other words, surrender is not an act, but rather a natural outcome when the realization dawns on us that there’s nothing more we can do. Of course, as one matures spiritually, s/he develops the wisdom to recognize when to act and when to let go, allowing surrender to unfold.
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    The deeper implication of this story though is to illustrate how effortless life can be when we remain in a state of surrender to the omnipotent and omniscient presence we call God. While Draupadi’s situation was extreme, in most cases, we need to participate in co-creating alongside God’s intervention. The practical way to apply this in everyday life is to pray for guidance and then take action based on the inner guidance received from God. This approach can save us from expending time, energy, and effort in the wrong direction. Although it may seem simple, staying in this state of surrender and connection to God’s presence and guidance remains elusive for many of us. This is because we need two foundational qualities to achieve this:

    1) A deep connection and bonding with God, traditionally called Bhakti.

    2) The willingness to cooperate with God and take action based on the inner guidance received. This ability to take action requires some level of self-empowerment, which necessitates individual effort.

    A famous quote succinctly captures this idea: ‘God helps those who help themselves.’ I would like to expand on this concept further: “God helps those who help themselves and are also willing participants in the grand scheme of things, aligning their actions with divine guidance and surrendering to the natural flow of life.”

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    1. The Sabad Project Avatar
      The Sabad Project

      Thank you so much, Uthra, for your reflection. I really resonate with what you’re saying here. Life just seems to flow better when we remember that what’s happening outside doesn’t really matter as much as the part we can play in that situation. And that is the true essence of surrender. Inaction in action. Action in inaction.

      Thanks again for sharing such a thoughtful and well-written reflection.

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